Mit einem Self Join im Subselect hat es geklappt :)
SELECT count( * ) AS Anzahl, Name, (SELECT count( * ) AS j FROM Table AS B WHERE B.Schalter = 'j' AND B.Name = table.Name) as j,
(SELECT count( * ) AS n FROM Table AS C WHERE C.schalter = 'n' AND C.Name = table.Name ) as n FROM table
GROUP BY Name ORDER BY Anzahl DESC, j desc, n